Why marriage to American woman no longer makes sense.
Modern American woman wants all the benefits of "equality" without any of the responsibilities that come with equality.
American women want special privileges from the traditional system (men paying, being "gentlemen" by using special deferential manners and language to women, being the main breadwinner, etc) but not the old-fashioned obligations (being modest and ladylike, being a housewife, etc).
They want the positives of equality (rights, equal access to work and education, etc) without the responsibilities (paying your own way financially a full 50% for life, taking risks with no safety net, and taking your lumps without complaint like men do...not expecting to be protected or sheltered from harsh reality, etc).
You can’t take only the good from both systems...you have to take the bad with the good in any balance you strike. When American women try to have their cake and eat it in this way, the bad doesn’t disappear...it gets paid by men, and this is why the current culture is one of exploitation by selfish hypocritical American women.
The current American culture discourages women being looked at critically, instead projecting all blame unjustly onto men; and so the inequity is rationalized away.
This is why other cultures which haven’t got this screwed up as far as gender relations go, start to look very attractive. The women there expect to give as well as get.
has the article called "The good wife’s guide" from 1955 issue of Housekeeping monthly. Check out the article. It looks almost laughable today. But it’s no laughing matter. That’s what women were expected to do to make marriage fair and balanced.
Do not get into relationship and marriage discussions with American women.
It cannot succeed.
They don’t like it, because it shows in plain black and white how hypocritical and selfish American women are as a group, and how they are taking advantage of men, children, and all of society in order to satisfy their emotional whims.
Never, ever expect any American woman, of any age, to discuss these issues honestly. They won’t answer you honestly, they won’t "admit" the truth, and they won’t stop spinning the truth.
They are purely, completely selfish. Their entire thought process – their "world view" is completely selfish. They are utterly brainwashed by feminism to consider themselves "innocent" and men "guilty" at ALL times no matter what reality is. It doesn’t matter how wildly unfair the situation. Somehow, American women will keep making everything "men’s fault".
Even the very few American women who are able to think independently about this, and who want to understand your feelings (let’s say you’re talking to a woman who is a close friend and respects