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4 Character Defect aggressive, belligerent

2 a n g r y apathetic

Opposite Asset 4 good-natured, gentle f o r g i v i n g , c a l m , g e n e r o u s

interested, concerned, alert

apprehensive, afraid argumentative, quarrelsome arrogant, insolent attacking, critical

calm, courageous agreeable unassuming, humble fair, self-restrained

avoidant blocking boastful careless1 cheating

faces problems and acts honest, intuitive modest, humble careful, painstaking, concerned honest

competitive (socially) compulsive

cooperative free

conceited 1 , s e l f - i m p o r t a n t contradictory, oppositional|

humble, modest reasonable, agreeable

contrary, intractable, pigheaded

reasonable

controlling cowardly

lets go, esp. of other's lives brave 4

critical

3

non-judgmental, praising, tolerant,

cynical deceitful defensive

open-minded guileless, honest open to criticism

defiant, contemptuous denying dependent

respectful honest, accepting accepts help but is self-reliant

depressed, morose|

hopeful, optimistic, cheerful 4

dirty, poor hygiene dishonest3 disloyal, treacherous disobedient

clean 4 honest faithful, loyal 4 obedient 4

disrespectful, insolent

respectful, reverent

4

enabling envying 2 , 3

setting boundaries, tough love empathetic, generous, admiring

evasive, deceitful exaggerating faithless, disloyal falsely modest falsely prideful 2 , 3

candid, straightforward honest, realistic reliable, faithful honest, has self-esteem modest, humble

fantasizing, unrealistic fearful 3

practical, realistic confidant, courageous

Checklist of Flaws and Assets

forgetful gluttonous , excessive

2

responsible moderate

gossiping 3 greedy 2 , 3

closed-mouth, kind, praising moderate, generous, sharing

hateful

3

forgiving, loving, concerned for others

hypersensitive

tolerant, doesn't personalize

i l l - t e m p e r e d 1 , b i t c h y

good-tempered, calm

impatient

3

patient

impulsive, reckless|

consistent, considered actions

inconsiderate indecisive, timid

thoughtful, considerate firm, decisive

indifferent, apathetic, aloof

caring

inflexible, stubborn insecure, anxious

open-minded, flexible self-confident, secure

3

insincere , hypocritical

sincere, honest

intolerant

1

tolerant, understanding, patient

irresponsible, reckless

responsible

isolating, solitary

sociable, outgoing

jealous 1 , 3 judgmental

trusting, generous, admiring broadminded, tolerant

justifying (own actions) lack of purpose lazy, indolent

honest, frank, candid purposeful industrious, conscientious

loud lustful lying 3

2

tasteful, quiet healthy sexuality honest

manipulative masked, closed nagging narrow minded obscene, crude over emotional perfectionistic pessimistic| possessive prejudiced procrastinates3 projecting (negative) rationalizing resentful1 ,3 , bitter, hateful resisting growing candid, honest, non-controlling honest, open, candid supportive open minded modest, courteous emotionally stable realistic goals realistic, hopeful, optimistic, trusting generous open-minded disciplined, acts promptly clear sighted, optimistic candid, honest forgiving willing to grow

rude, discourteous

polite, courteous 4

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sarcastic 1 self-important self-centered

3

praising, tolerant humble, modest caring of others

self-destructive, self-defeating

self-fulfilling

self-hating self-justifying self-pitying 3 self-righteous self-seeking3

3

self-accepting, loving admitting wrongs, humble grateful, realistic, accepting humble, understanding selfless, concerned for others

s e l f i s h 1 , 3 shy slothful (lazy) 2 , 3 spiteful, malicious

altruistic, concerned with others outgoing industrious, taking action forgiving

stealing

honest

stubborn

open-minded, willing

sullen

cheerful

superior, grandiose, pretentious

humble

superstitious

realistic, no magical thinking

suspicious tense thinking negatively treacherous

3

trusting calm, serene being positive trustworthy

undisciplined, self-indulgent

disciplined

unfair

fair

unfriendly, hostile, bitchy ungrateful

friendly4 thankful, grateful

unkind, mean, malicious, sp unsupportive of others

iteful

kind 4 supportive

untrustworthy, unreliable, dishonest| trustworthy

4

useless, de vain vindictive violent vulgar 3

structive

helpful 4 modest, humble forgiving gentle polite

wasteful

thrifty 4

willful withdrawn wordy, verbose

accepting of the inevitable outgoing frank, to the point, succinct

Other dysfunctional ways of acting, feeling or thinking which cause others or me pain (specify in the following Review of Flaws). See source footnotes on page 2.

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