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Den Code Of Conduct

At your first den meeting sit down with the boys and discuss what a den meeting will be like and what you hope to accomplish.  Introduce the cubs to the Cub Scout sign.  Let them know that you h ave no intention of wasting your time screaming an hollering at them ( the boys will appreciate that too!) and you will only be using the sign to get their attention. (A whistle is nice to use for rowdy outdoor games)

Have the boys tell you what rules they think would be appropriate for den meetings.  You'll be surprised,  the boys will be harder on themselves than you would be.  They'll be delighted when you decide to throw a rule or two out.  Here's a sample Den Code of Conduct written by boys:

¥Don't interrupt

¥No nasty jokes

¥No punching or kicking

¥Listen to Akela and don't talk back

¥No cussing

¥Don't stick your tongue out or spit

¥No talking ugly about other people

You might add a few things, like:

¥ÊWipe your feet at the door.

¥ÊNo running or yelling in the house.

Write all the rules on a poster board and display them at every meeting.  You might find you need to add something later.  You may also wish to review them from time to time.

Once you have your den rules established, you need to find a system to enforce it that will work for you.  One system that works well is "THREE STRIKES - YOU'RE OUT". The first time a boy breaks a rule, he gets a warning.  The second time, the boy spends 5 minutes in Time Out. (Time Out is an interruption of a child's unacceptable behavior, by removing him from the scene of the action.)  A chair off to the side, out of the activity of the den meeting, can serve as the Time Out area.  After 5 minutes the boy is asked if he is ready to return to the group.  If a boy doesn't control himself in Time Out, he moves on to his third strike.  When a Cub commits his third infraction of the Code of Conduct, he is excused from the meeting and must call a parent to come and get him.  Have a conference with the boy and at least one parent before he can return to the next den meeting.  Be sure to explain the Den's Code of Conduct and the consequences of breaking the rules to the parents of boys in your den at each of our den parents meetings.

There are a variety of ways to keep track of each boy's conduct.  The best are the ones which will accentuate the boy's positive behavior instead of the negative.

TICKETS - Use carnival tickets or homemade ones.Give each boy three tickets when he arrives and have him sign his name on each ticket. When he breaks a rule, he has to give you a ticket.  For each ticket lost, follow the procedure in the "Three Strikes--You're Out" format. The tickets he has left at the end of the meeting can be placed in a bank.  At the end of each month, count how many tickets each boy has in the bank.  Reward the boy with the best behavior(most tickets) with a special treat.

MARBLES JAR - Give each boy 3 marbles at the beginning of each meeting.  Take marbles away for unacceptable behavior.  At the meeting's end, the boys put their remaining marbles in a jar.  When the jar is full, take a den field trip as a reward.  Don't make the jar too big.  The goal will be too hard and the boys will lose interest.  A month is about the right amount of time to work toward a field trip.  Adjust the size of the jar accordingly.  

CARD PUNCHES - Give each boy an index card at the beginning of the den meeting.  Have him sign it.  If he breaks a rule, ask to see his card and punch a hole in it with a paper punch. If he has no punches at the end of the meeting, give him a special treat.

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