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OPTIONAL ICEBREAKER/HOMEWORK

To start the group off you could have each group member pick out one or two of these and talk about your expectations going into marriage compared with your current experience. This is not the place to embarrass your spouse, but to laugh together at our flawed expectations. Or, couples can talk through these by themselves during the week.

A. How are household responsibilities taken care of?

a. Cooking

e. Yard work

b. Cleaning

f. Home repairs

c. Taking care of the kids

g. Car maintenance

d. Laundry

h. Taking out the trash

B. How do you expect decisions will get made?

    • a.

      I make the call

    • b.

      They make the call

  • C.

    Marriage is supposed to be…

    • a.

      Exciting, spontaneous

  • c.

    We’ll decide everything together

  • d.

    We’ll consult on the big ones

  • b.

    Comforting, planned

D. Conflict in marriage will be handled by

    • a.

      Stuffing it all inside

  • E.

    When arriving home from work

    • a.

      We’ll talk about the day

  • b.

    Letting it all hang out

  • b.

    We’ll give each other space to unwind

  • F.

    Holidays will be spent

    • a.

      His family

    • b.

      Her family

  • G.

    The garage will be

  • c.

    Alternating between

  • d.

    Just us

a. A place for parking our cars b. An attached storage building

  • H.

    Evening meals will consist o

    • a.

      Home cooking

    • b.

      Take out

  • I.

    Bedtime attire will be

    • a.

      As little as possible

  • J.

    We’ll have sex

    • a.

      Twice a day

    • b.

      Twice a week

  • K.

    We’ll handle our money

    • a.

      By saving most of it

  • L.

    We’ll have

    • a.

      No kids

    • b.

      One kid

  • M.

    We’ll vacation at

    • a.

      Six Flags

    • b.

      St. Simon

f

  • c.

    Go out

  • d.

    Fend for yourself

  • b.

    As comfortable as possible

  • c.

    Twice a month

  • d.

    Twice a year

  • b.

    By spending most of it

  • c.

    Two kids

  • d.

    Twelve kids

  • c.

    St. Croix

  • d.

    Vacation?

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