Signs of an Abusive Relationship—Cont’d
Unwanted sexual advances that make you feel uncomfort- able are also red flags that the relationship needs to focus more on respect. When someone says stuff like “If you loved me you would…” that’s also a warning of possible abuse. A statement like this is controlling and is used by people who are only concerned about getting what they want—not caring about what you want. Trust your intui- tion. Twists the truth to make you feel you are to blame for your partner’s actions. Demands to know where you are at all times. Constantly becomes jealous or angry when you want to spend time with your friends.
Cayuga/Seneca Community Action Agency Domestic Violence Intervention Program 24-hour hotline
Cayuga Counseling Services, Inc. SAVAR 24-hour hotline
Emergency Police Assistance
Cayuga County Sheriff
New York State Police
Auburn Memorial Hospital