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(i)

result of

having

been

failed, in

the

child(ren)’s

view,

by the

legal system

and

the lack of

faith felt by the child(ren) as a

(ii)

the adults involved, the feeling of helplessness

experienced

by

the child(ren) in were involved,

the

events

in

which

they

(iii)

the any

unwillingness of the child(ren) to take risks and wanting everything to “feel

(iv) (v)

safe”, the unwillingness to sleep alone, the learning of coping strategies “blanking out”, or distancing, from

like the

(vi)

(vii)

(viii)

(ix) (x)

unhappy circumstances and the resultant ability to cut off from those they love so that they do not miss them and are unable to show affection to them, guilt towards one or both parents for not “choosing” to be with that parent, the loss of childhood which has been “stolen” by the events that occurred so that the children have to be older than their years, the acceptance of conflict as normal and the attitude that there is no need to get on with the people in their lives, instead fighting their way through these problems, the inability to deal with stress, a lack of trust,

  • (c)

    difficulties with schooling due to time missed,

  • (d)

    extremely bad behaviour with regression to toddler-

type temper tantrums,

(e)

nightmares and disturbed sleep,

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