Becoming an Exquisite Intercultural Communicator
You need only three things to be an absolutely exquisite communicator.
know the outcome that you want
have flexibility in your behaviour (generate lots and lots of different behaviours to find the response that you want)
have sensory awareness to notice when you get the responses that you want and when you don’t
Adapted from “Frogs Into Princes” (1979) by Richard Bandler and John Grinder